You are important.

Yes, the title of this post sums up everything I’m trying to convey in this post.

YOU ARE IMPORTANT. Maybe not to me, maybe not to him, maybe not to her. There’s even the rarest possibility that you are maybe not important to anyone else in this world. But still I would stand firm on my words. You are important. To yourself.

And what do we do with important things ? We make sure they’re taken care of, looked after. So that’s what we need to do about us too right ?

And maybe most of us are ! But unfortunately, “most” does not consist of “all” even though it is a whole letter bigger than the latter word.

So anyway, take care of ourselves, huh ? How exactly ? Physically ? Well but I eat everything that my mom tells me. I exercise exactly how my doctor has told me to.
Ummmm, okay then. Academically ? But I’m doing everything my teacher asks me to. I even sit at night to study for my upcoming tests.

Well that’s quite brilliant. But how about your emotional needs ? What do you do about them ? Not so much, to be frank, am I right ?

There are some things we do about our emotional needs. Sometimes they are effective. But sometimes they are not.

Every person needs a vent, an outlet for the huge mess of emotions in their minds, so that they can make room for better ones. I have learnt and experienced this myself. And so I am trying to make it easier for everyone to be friends with their emotional selves. That’s because we need to take good care of ourselves. We need to be at peace with ourselves in order to be better in other fields of life.

Basically, in this post I’m going to offer you an ear. I’m a trained active listener on an emotional support website that’s listed below. And I love listening to what people have to say. So I’m going to drop off some links below. You can use them to talk to me if you feel like you need to vent, or just someone to talk to.

kher.aparna98@gmail.com

thedoodlemachine.ak@gmail.com

Also, you can try these two websites :

http://www.blahtherapy.com ( I’m a listener on both of these websites, you can PM me there if you’d like. If not, there are so many better people who’d be willing to listen to you and help you if needed )

Well these are just the ways in which I can be of help. But you can be of help to your loved ones too. From this day on, try to lend an attentive ear to anything and everything people have to say. You may not always agree. But try to put yourself in their shoes and try to understand. If we start considering what the other person feels like, maybe we’d be more open to positive changes and progress as a society. Happy trying !

As for me, I’ll try to do everything I can. I hope you will, too. Farewell until we meet again. Take good care of yourselves. *hugs you* 🙂